Back off a bit!

I am an attractive woman and I know that, now this is not me being full of myself or anything like that but it's me knowing myself and who I am and what I have to offer. I have been complimented a lot on my looks and my personality and I totally appreciate it. What I don't appreciate is when people, or should I say MEN feel that because they have complimented me I automatically owe them a date or more of my time than I am willing to give.

I mean, I love having male friends, they really are entertaining and tend to always give you that honesty that your female friends won't give. But you can not become one of my close male friends who I love and trust just by giving a compliment or two. Why can't you get that??? I will be nice to you and I will say thanks but that's about it, move on already.

Another thing that gets me with these men are when you give them your time they always feel they deserve more. Especially after I told you that I am in a relationship. Have some respect please! You can not be my friend and gain my trust and respect if you can not as much as respect the fact that I have a boyfriend. It's ok if you stop talking to me, I don't mind that at all, what I do mind is you thinking and behaving as if you should get to call me late hours or have lengthy conversations with me or visit me whenever you want just because you told me that I'm pretty and have a beautiful personality.

Respect me by respecting my relationship and maybe we can talk friendship...